Our monthly support meetings offer a warm and caring atmosphere for you to hear about the experiences of others, share your own, and grow in your understanding of sexual and gender diversity. All discussions are confidential, and many people come at first to listen and not to talk. We welcome LGBTQ* individuals as well as their parents, family members and friends.
There is no fee to attend a meeting – it’s completely free. You do not have to register in advance. ASL interpreting is available with advance notice. Please contact us to make arrangements.
The Support Meeting is also your chance to borrow a book or DVD from our free lending library (currently available at the East End meeting only).
When: The 1st Wednesday of every month, from 7:30 – 9 p.m. (refreshments served at 7:15 p.m.)
Where: Kimbourne Park United Church, 200 Wolverleigh Blvd. (2 blocks north of Danforth Avenue, half a block east of Coxwell Avenue and Coxwell Subway Station)
WEST END - new!
When: The 2nd Tuesday of every month from 7:30 – 9 p.m. (refreshments served at 7:15 p.m.)
Where: St. Olave's Anglican Church (side entrance), Ethel Brown Room, 360 Windermere Avenue, south of Bloor, between Jane and Runnymede.
RSVP: You do not have to confirm your attendance. You are welcome to attend any meeting you wish.
Wondering whether a support meeting is right for you? Contact us by phone or email and we’ll be happy to answer your questions.
What to expect:
Monthly support meetings can attract anywhere from a half dozen to thirty people. For some it’s their first meeting, while others have been attending for many years. Some are parents who are struggling to accept that their child is gay; others are LGBTQ* individuals who have been rejected by their parents. Still others simply want to learn more about LGBTQ* issues now that they are part of a gay-straight family.
Each meeting is facilitated by a Toronto PFLAG volunteer, who explains that all personal information is to be treated as confidential, and not shared with anyone outside the group. To start the discussion, Toronto PFLAG volunteers introduce themselves and tell the group a little bit about their personal experiences. Then we open the floor to anyone who wishes to talk or to ask questions. By sharing our journeys and lessons learned, we help one another adjust to our new family dynamic, or cope with adverse conditions. We understand that the experience of coming out as LGBTQ* or learning that your child is LGBTQ* is unique for everyone. As such, you will never feel like you are being judged or pressured at one of our meetings. We encourage you to move forward at your own pace.
From time to time we invite guest speakers to our meetings who provide information and perspectives on various issues of interest to Toronto PFLAG families – from Toronto Police Service outreach to the LGBTQ* community, to transgender issues.